You've just decided to get married. Congrats! Enjoy the attention and the joy showered onto you by your family and friends. Be humble, talk to everyone who wants to talk to you-remember, they are excited for you and may not take into consideration just HOW many phone calls you're probably getting. And the fact that you still have real life to focus on. You don't WANT to spend every lunch break on the phone with this aunt or that college friend, but try to enjoy it and don't brush them off. You only get married once, right? Well, that's the idea, anyway!